#8: Volevo essere un duro.
"Living life is child's play - that's what my mom used to tell me as I fell from trees".
I liked quite a few Eurovision entries this year. Volevo essere un duro was my favourite by far. It, perhaps, wasn't a Eurovision song. But it was absolutely one of the most meaningful and beautiful songs there. I was already a Lucio Corsi fan before, but now he's one of my top artists.
I'm terrified of moving back home. University is over, and I'm moving in 9 days. I'm turning 23 in 7 days. I'm not sure how to face either of these facts, really. I'm going to a funeral in 2 days. I feel, sometimes, as though I'm barely holding myself together. If you know me, you'll know exactly what I'm doing to cope with all of the change and the pressure and the stress: thinking about literally anything else because it's sustainable for me to do so right now (and smoking a little weed and drinking a little liquor in the evenings).
I like to think of myself as a well-adjusted person. I try my best to be kind, and if something happens that upsets me I'm not one to start an argument about it. It feels like, lately, people have been trying to provoke arguments with me - perhaps not intentionally, but it feels that way nontheless. I don't know. It's not something I've engaged with, it's not something I will engage with. I'm not sure if it's the combination of losing two people very dear to me in a short space of time to cancer, but I think. Well. Losing two people very dear to you in a short space of time to cancer certainly gives you perspective on what's important to you. And it certainly reminds you very quickly that it's not worth fighting for those who don't want to spend time with you, or fighting those who wish to fight you.
The weather has been warm, the sun has been shining, there are two magpies who play in my garden that I blow kisses to when I wash my dishes, a wasp landed on me the other day and didn't sting me, and I get to see my cat again in 9 days. Life has been hard, life has certainly not been the child's play Lucio's mom told him it would be (my mother did not, but I also did not fall from trees often). And yet, I've been happy. Happier than ever before, to be honest. I hope it stays that way.